My boyfriend is still on a dating website
I havent confronted him about it, mainly because im waiting to see how long he keeps it up. I felt I'm not lovable and well ..hated myself for it. Surely he will wants to bring her home and do whatever. Since I made my post I found out he was talking to a girl for about a month that he met in Badoo and he lied to me and said he was going to "play ball" and ended up going to hook up w/her. This is the first time I'm talking about this amd nobody knows in my environmemt because I'd feel ashamed open up about it.Last week, i discovered that my bf of 5 yrs is on a dating site called Plenty of Fish. I just want to pack up while he is not here and leave without a word as I feel that he is going to literally just dump me one day to another. I have never been lied to like this before and it's shoking that there are people out there like this. Thank fully she found out about me and told m EVERYTHING. There is happiness out here and it sure as hell is not being with someone who is entertaining other women and lying to you. I have fohnd out that during the 2 years relationship there wasn t a period when he wasn t lying.About three weeks ago, we went through a huge fight and even took a week off.. He is on badoo saying he is single and lives on his own and constantly trying to ask out somebody. You are sacrificing your own happiness for someone who clearly does not know what they want in life. I'm very worried about when it's over how I'm going to het ober this horrible experience and the insecurity I feel is crippling.You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…There are 5 plausible reasons why the guy you’re dating still has an active online dating profile. He’s just looking for casual flings or one-nighter’s. If you’ve developed enough of a rapport with this guy and you’re ready for a relationship, talk to him.Let’s be honest, you have to sift through a lot of online dating profiles to determine who is looking to get laid, versus the ones that truly want a relationship. Some people find it hard to shut down their online dating profile in fear that there could be someone better out there. You can’t expect him to delete his online dating profile immediately until you have developed a rapport. Don’t accuse him of still having his online dating profile active, rather approach the situation from a place where you’re expressing how you feel and what you’re looking for out of the relationship.
and if i bring it to light, I feel i have to be ready to call it all off.. It feels surreal, I cannot comprehend how he can act normal taking me to family dinners go shopping and asking out other girls on badoo and registering on sites like toyboy warehouse.
It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?
How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?
This time I am not saying anything, but feel he is always looking for something better. My girlfriend who is on looked at his site for me (which is still posted) and said he had been on that day, just a few hours ago, which was while I was gone. A woman who has so little self-esteem that she puts up with such defiant behavior. But if the company knows and doesn’t fire him, whose fault is it that the behavior continues? And if I’m the CEO, I’m gonna keep on openly embezzling. But really, what do you think he’s DOING on Match each day?
Do you think he’s just browsing, like people browse through the mall?