Dating 4 months but not exclusive
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I've been dating a guy exclusively for about 3.5 months.
I asked him questions about taking it to the next level and having a "relationship" with him.
He said that he's not sure he wants to do that because although he's "into me", he's not sure if he could fall in love with me and so far doesn't feel like he's "falling".
He says he enjoys our "companionship" and doesn't want anything serious.
But I hope to lay out the pros and the cons for you so that you can make an informed decision on your own, okay?
Cons: One of my dating credos is “believe the negative, ignore the positive”.
Do u guys think I should say something or just play it by ear? I think the time has definitely come to have the talk.I feel like a real relationship is developing except for the fact that he hasn't ever invited me to hang out with him and his friends, and Have only once been to his brothers but never met his mother.I'm debating on bringing up our relationship status because its really been lingering on my mind and quite honestly it's beginning to slowly but surely bug me to not know where we stand.I have been in an exclusive relationship with a man for 6 months now. I had major surgery and he stood by me, slept in the hospital, and took care of me at my worst for my 3-week recovery. Yet he says all the important people in his life know about us (family, close friends, few of which he has) and that he doesn’t want to be with anyone else. We already have exactly what a relationship is and he “checks in” with me even though I don’t ask that of him. Basically though, I was blindsided the other day because after everything, he said that I am not his “girlfriend” and he doesn’t want the expectations that come with the title.